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Why I hate “strong women”

“Naturally my stories are about women — I’m a woman. I don’t know what the term is for men who write mostly about men.”
―Alice Munro

Recently there’s been a firestorm about “strong women characters.”  We need more of them, everyone shouts.  But I disagree.

Wait, don’t leave yet.  I believe we need more female characters, and definitely more female protagonists.  People may decry the Bechdel Test, but wouldn’t it be great if we lived in a world where we didn’t need it?  The Bechdel Test is flawed, but it proves a point.  Women are more than just the damsel-in-distress.  But we’re also more than the warrior princess.

And this is why we don’t need more “strong women.” Because inevitably someone takes this to mean we need more female characters who can shoot big guns, who know karate, who work for the FBI, or who are obsessed with their jobs.  These women are strong, but they’re not always compelling.  What we need are more COMPLEX female characters.  We need more women characters that are defined not by how well they keep up with the guys, but how well they are characterized.  Though this is not what is meant when we say “strong women,” but somehow it’s what it turned into.

I love a female protagonist who can kick ass.  I’ve written several of them.  But soon this character becomes another cliché in a long line of female character clichés somewhere between Manic Pixie Dream Girl and Adorkable Smart Girl.

Let’s strive for complex.  Let’s strive for compelling.  Let’s strive for surprise.  Let’s strive for a character that isn’t defined by the fact she’s a woman.  F-k it, let’s just write good characters.

I recently had a writer (full disclosure, he was male) who had written a sexy physicist character who did nothing except have sex with the protagonist and get captured by the bad guy.  I told him she needed more characterization, perhaps she could even use her knowledge of physics at some point?  But he felt that it would take up too much space in the script to flesh her out more.  My response?  Would A-list actresses be chomping at the bit to play this character?  No way.  Not even remotely close.  She was a plot device, nothing more, and who wants to play a plot device?  Ultimately, that convinced him to change her into something more.  Thank goodness.

Remember, no A-list actress when asked to look back on her career and pick a favorite character ever said, “The one with the great ass.”

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Woolf at the door

“Writing is like sex. First you do it for love, then you do it for your friends, and then you do it for money.”
― Virginia Woolf

Today was tough.  I had an interview with a perfectly nice company for a copywriter job.  I was fairly excited about the prospect, mostly of making some money after being off the regular job market for three years, but on the way home I was depressed.  Majorly, pathetically, depressed.  I worried that I was going to stick myself into another job I didn’t really want and all chance of writing creatively for a living would go flying out the high-rise window.  I also worried about not seeing my kids all day long as I had had the luxury of doing ever since the first one was born.  It wouldn’t be the end of the world, but I felt that pressure in my chest I get whenever I realize that I haven’t written in over a week and that dreams aren’t built on twenty minutes twice a month.

Then I made dinner and forgot about it.

But as I sat down to watch “Face Off” on the Syfy channel after the kids were asleep, as I normally do at the end of the day, my laptop decided to challenge me to a highly judgmental staring contest.  I decided to work on a project I had been meaning to find the time for all week, then instead I did this.

Starting out in screenwriting is like this.  One minute you have three offer for options, and the next minute they’ve all disappeared.  One minute you’re telling all your friends your script is in development, then two years later they ask what happened, and you have to shrug, mumble “development hell,” and pretend you’re okay with it.  One minute you’re flying high, the next you have to start from scratch.

Now I know most of you are getting worried right about now, because on the face of it, I might seem marginally successful.  But to put it in perspective, one of my friends who has sold two scripts to major studios was only recently able to quit his day job and that was only because he was able to get two more work-for-hire jobs.  And he would be the first to admit he might need to go back to answering telephones if his phone doesn’t continue to ring.

That didn’t make you feel better, did it?  Never fear, perseverance is the name of this game.  You (and I) might have to take that random office job while waiting for your first six-figure sale, but at least we’ll be in good company.

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